My older son, Ender, is 2 1/2, and very curious. His daddy and I haven't decided whether or not to homeschool or try to manage paying for private school, but at the moment private school is not looking very affordable. Right now our son is taking Suzuki piano lessons and that has given him something to focus his abundant energy on. I know it seems early for piano lessons, but I'm a professional musician and I've been watching him for signs of readiness practically since birth. I know that sounds funny, but let me tell you-- this child came out of the womb musical! He is able to practice for 5-10 minutes at a time and has a wonderful natural sense of rhythm. He already reads rhythm patterns- I'm amazed by this! Even after being a music teacher for the last 10 years I didn't really think it was possible for him to learn to read rhythm at 2 years old, but he reads rhythms up that include everything from whole notes to sixteenth notes! I will be the first to admit that it is a great help to him that I am also a piano teacher and practice properly at home with him.
We make practice time a daily thing that we do together in the morning, and then he often chooses to be at the piano throughout the day as long as I am not with students. He is around a wide variety of music all the time because my music studio is in our home and I'm actively teaching students about 20 hours a week. I am curious to see if his interest holds. I primarily teach violin, and as long as he is interested in a year or two and his piano technique is well developed I will start him on the violin as well.
Another thing I've been looking at is homeschooling. I was homeschooled through much of my education, mostly because I was involved in so many music activities that it was the only way I could get enough practice time in. As I was looking for information to help us make our decision about schooling our children, I came across information about lapbooking. I think I'm going to start doing a modified version of this with my 2 year old. We are going on a trip to the ocean at the end of May, so I'd like to teach him a little about the ocean and the beach before we go since he has never been, and I think a simplified lapbook may be a nice way to introduce that to him. He's really enjoying coloring right now, so I think a few coloring pages that we can staple into a colorful folder to make into a book might be fun for him.
Anyone else have information on lapbooking?
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Trying New Things
Does anyone have any amazing ideas for getting stubborn people to try new foods? My husband is a total wimp about vegetables, and my 2 year old is catching on to the fact that daddy doesn't really eat his veggies. We're already in the "5 Food Stage"- where the toddler will only really eat 5 different things- kosher hotdogs, green beans, applesauce, any kind of cracker, and soy yogurt. Gummy bears are also on the favorites list, but I can't bear to put that down as one of his 5 main nutrition sources! Note- the kosher hotdogs and soy yogurt are because of cow's milk allergies here- our whole family is intolerant (we're not sure about the baby yet, since he hasn't hit 18 months), so we just don't have it around- we do a lot of soy products and rice milk over here.
The husband has problems with the textures of foods, so certain things like cooked carrots literally make him gag. I want to call him a whiny baby, but that isn't exactly being an excellent wife, is it? I do think there are some things that he didn't like as a kid that if he would just try them again he would like okay. I keep trying to tell him that your taste buds mature just like the rest of the body and they can like new flavors if you give it a shot. I just want to be able to try out a few new recipes- that's all. Is that so bad?
The husband has problems with the textures of foods, so certain things like cooked carrots literally make him gag. I want to call him a whiny baby, but that isn't exactly being an excellent wife, is it? I do think there are some things that he didn't like as a kid that if he would just try them again he would like okay. I keep trying to tell him that your taste buds mature just like the rest of the body and they can like new flavors if you give it a shot. I just want to be able to try out a few new recipes- that's all. Is that so bad?
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Keeping Organized: Note Card System
I am the queen of organization books. I read book after book, visit site after site, all in an effort to be more organized than before. Organization does not come naturally to me at all. My mother was not very concerned with it either, and then once every 5 or 6 weeks she would say, "Okay everyone- time to get this place cleaned up!" So the idea of daily upkeep was really new to me when I first got married. By the end of the second year of marriage, we had a pretty good system in place, and that lasted us until I got pregnant with our first son. I was exhausted all the time, so my wonderful husband picked up the slack for a little while. I thought once I had the little guy things would be easier, but it was harder than ever- boy, was I naive!
The system I have in place now is from a combination of sources. I've borrowed the things that I need from various systems, and that has really worked for me.
The big help is my file box. I have an index card file box that I use to keep track of my life. This is a modification of the SHE system.
The List
I started out by creating a list in Excel listing every imagineable task that I am responsible for in our home, my work, and my kids and husband's lives. When I say everything, I mean everything! I went room by room thinking of each individual task that needs to be completed and put it in the list. Then in the next column I decided how often these tasks reasonably need to be performed. I want to stress the word "reasonably" because it's easy to say you want to mop the kitchen floor every single day and systematically declutter the house every day, but will that honestly happen? Also, life stages effect how often I feel I need to clean certain things. Because I have a crawler right now I am religiously vacuuming our living room every single day. Once he's older and not picking things out of the carpet as often I will go back to vacuuming a few times a week.
Once you have your list created, go through and see which tasks can be combined together. On my kitchen list I had: 1. Put dishes in the dishwasher, 2. Clean Stove, 3. Wipe down Counters, 4. Wash table. I put those tasks on one card that says "Clean Kitchen" at the top, then lists those separate tasks underneath.
Making the Cards
Now you are ready to put it onto cards. I wrote all my tasks on index cards, dividing them by color. Daily, weekly and Monthly regular tasks are on blue cards. Trips out of the house are on pink cards. We go to the library, bank, post office, grocery store, and Whole Foods each week, so those are on pink cards. Additional things come up- going to play with friends, various appointments; those all get pink cards. I keep health related items on yellow cards. I have cards to remind me about drinking enough water, taking my vitamins, exercise, and keeping devotions and reading time. I use green cards for seasonal tasks and tasks that can be done any time that month. White cards are for tasks relating to my business, and I'm constantly adding those to whatever days I need to do them!
One of the more important types of cards for me to include has been "maintenance" cards. I have "maintain the linen closet" and "maintain the bathroom cabinet" cards and others like that that are monthly cards. If I spend 10-15 minutes a month maintaining the areas that I've already spent time organizing I don't end up needing to re-organize them very often.
Another important type of card specific to me are project cards. As I think of projects that need to be done around the house or bigger cleaning/organizing projects that I want to accomplish, I add those cards as well. They are usually the types of cards that take multiple days for me to accomplish, because it is rare that I'm able to find several hours in a row to dedicate to a project. So I work at them for 15-20 minutes a day and then I am always making a bit of forward progress.
When I wrote out my cards I put the task in the center of the card, the timeliness of the card (daily, weekly, monthly, whatever) in the top left corner, and the approximate amount of time it takes for me to accomplish the task up in the right hand corner. The reason I do it this way is because one of my problems is that I often get overwhelmed and think that I have no time to get anything done, but by looking at the card and remembering that it's really just a 5 minute task, I don't get overwhelmed as easily. You may find that you don't need that little reminder, but it has been very helpful for me.
Filing the Cards
By now you should have a big stack of cards detailing your tasks. Next up is filing all those cards. I bought dividers labeled by number 1-31 to correspond with the calendar date, and then another set of dividers labeled by month. My seasonal cards go in the monthly dividers, and the rest of my cards are filed by date. For the sake of easiness, let's assume you are starting on the first of the month. Put your daily cards behind the number 1 card. Next, sort your weekly cards by which day of the week you would like to perform each task. I put more tasks on Mondays and Fridays because I only work a half day on Monday and don't work at all on Fridays, so I get more done around the house on those days. I still do about an hour's worth of house stuff on the other 3 days, but I try to make those simpler tasks since my brain is usually taken up with work things on those days.
After I add weekly tasks, I look at my monthly tasks. I've done these in a variety of ways, depending on how our life schedules were at the time. I used to put many of them on Saturdays, but now that we have piano lessons and errand running on Saturday mornings, I spread them out- usually no more than 1 task per day, but some of those monthly tasks work together nicely so I might put those together.
Seasonal tasks can be assigned a day if you would like, but I've gotten into the habit of putting them in under day 1 and then moving it to the next day if I don't accomplish it. Usually I'll have that task done by mid-month, and occasionally not until the end of the month. That's just how it works best for me, but something else may work better for you.
I also include white cards with work tasks. I keep a stack of white index cards on my desk and as tasks come up that I will need to complete on another day or week, I write it on a white card and put it behind the divider for the appropriate day. Because I'm a sole proprieter these work task cards can be anything from billing to research to copying and then actually meeting with clients.
Using the Box
In the evenings I look through the next day's tasks and put them in the order that I want to accomplish them. I'm trying to establish a routine of doing certain daily tasks at the same time every day, so I put those in order first, then add in the weekly, monthy and seasonal cards that apply to that day. I try to put in work tasks earlier in my day since that is when I'm more alert, but often work tasks happen after my kids are in bed for the night.
As I complete cards during the day I move them to their next home. Daily cards that are accomplished move to the next day, weekly cards move to the next week, and monthly cards are filed under the next month . I also move the numbered divider for that day to the back so the current day is always at the front.
I keep different colored cards on my desk and add cards as needed and take cards out that no longer fit our lives. The thing I love about this is that it is fluid. If I'm not able to accomplish much on a certain day because of unexpected things coming up, I either move the card to the next day or week and have another go at it then. My work schedule is not very set, so this method fits my life perfectly right now.
Please feel free to ask questions in comments if you have any!
The system I have in place now is from a combination of sources. I've borrowed the things that I need from various systems, and that has really worked for me.
The big help is my file box. I have an index card file box that I use to keep track of my life. This is a modification of the SHE system.
The List
I started out by creating a list in Excel listing every imagineable task that I am responsible for in our home, my work, and my kids and husband's lives. When I say everything, I mean everything! I went room by room thinking of each individual task that needs to be completed and put it in the list. Then in the next column I decided how often these tasks reasonably need to be performed. I want to stress the word "reasonably" because it's easy to say you want to mop the kitchen floor every single day and systematically declutter the house every day, but will that honestly happen? Also, life stages effect how often I feel I need to clean certain things. Because I have a crawler right now I am religiously vacuuming our living room every single day. Once he's older and not picking things out of the carpet as often I will go back to vacuuming a few times a week.
Once you have your list created, go through and see which tasks can be combined together. On my kitchen list I had: 1. Put dishes in the dishwasher, 2. Clean Stove, 3. Wipe down Counters, 4. Wash table. I put those tasks on one card that says "Clean Kitchen" at the top, then lists those separate tasks underneath.
Making the Cards
Now you are ready to put it onto cards. I wrote all my tasks on index cards, dividing them by color. Daily, weekly and Monthly regular tasks are on blue cards. Trips out of the house are on pink cards. We go to the library, bank, post office, grocery store, and Whole Foods each week, so those are on pink cards. Additional things come up- going to play with friends, various appointments; those all get pink cards. I keep health related items on yellow cards. I have cards to remind me about drinking enough water, taking my vitamins, exercise, and keeping devotions and reading time. I use green cards for seasonal tasks and tasks that can be done any time that month. White cards are for tasks relating to my business, and I'm constantly adding those to whatever days I need to do them!
One of the more important types of cards for me to include has been "maintenance" cards. I have "maintain the linen closet" and "maintain the bathroom cabinet" cards and others like that that are monthly cards. If I spend 10-15 minutes a month maintaining the areas that I've already spent time organizing I don't end up needing to re-organize them very often.
Another important type of card specific to me are project cards. As I think of projects that need to be done around the house or bigger cleaning/organizing projects that I want to accomplish, I add those cards as well. They are usually the types of cards that take multiple days for me to accomplish, because it is rare that I'm able to find several hours in a row to dedicate to a project. So I work at them for 15-20 minutes a day and then I am always making a bit of forward progress.
When I wrote out my cards I put the task in the center of the card, the timeliness of the card (daily, weekly, monthly, whatever) in the top left corner, and the approximate amount of time it takes for me to accomplish the task up in the right hand corner. The reason I do it this way is because one of my problems is that I often get overwhelmed and think that I have no time to get anything done, but by looking at the card and remembering that it's really just a 5 minute task, I don't get overwhelmed as easily. You may find that you don't need that little reminder, but it has been very helpful for me.
Filing the Cards
By now you should have a big stack of cards detailing your tasks. Next up is filing all those cards. I bought dividers labeled by number 1-31 to correspond with the calendar date, and then another set of dividers labeled by month. My seasonal cards go in the monthly dividers, and the rest of my cards are filed by date. For the sake of easiness, let's assume you are starting on the first of the month. Put your daily cards behind the number 1 card. Next, sort your weekly cards by which day of the week you would like to perform each task. I put more tasks on Mondays and Fridays because I only work a half day on Monday and don't work at all on Fridays, so I get more done around the house on those days. I still do about an hour's worth of house stuff on the other 3 days, but I try to make those simpler tasks since my brain is usually taken up with work things on those days.
After I add weekly tasks, I look at my monthly tasks. I've done these in a variety of ways, depending on how our life schedules were at the time. I used to put many of them on Saturdays, but now that we have piano lessons and errand running on Saturday mornings, I spread them out- usually no more than 1 task per day, but some of those monthly tasks work together nicely so I might put those together.
Seasonal tasks can be assigned a day if you would like, but I've gotten into the habit of putting them in under day 1 and then moving it to the next day if I don't accomplish it. Usually I'll have that task done by mid-month, and occasionally not until the end of the month. That's just how it works best for me, but something else may work better for you.
I also include white cards with work tasks. I keep a stack of white index cards on my desk and as tasks come up that I will need to complete on another day or week, I write it on a white card and put it behind the divider for the appropriate day. Because I'm a sole proprieter these work task cards can be anything from billing to research to copying and then actually meeting with clients.
Using the Box
In the evenings I look through the next day's tasks and put them in the order that I want to accomplish them. I'm trying to establish a routine of doing certain daily tasks at the same time every day, so I put those in order first, then add in the weekly, monthy and seasonal cards that apply to that day. I try to put in work tasks earlier in my day since that is when I'm more alert, but often work tasks happen after my kids are in bed for the night.
As I complete cards during the day I move them to their next home. Daily cards that are accomplished move to the next day, weekly cards move to the next week, and monthly cards are filed under the next month . I also move the numbered divider for that day to the back so the current day is always at the front.
I keep different colored cards on my desk and add cards as needed and take cards out that no longer fit our lives. The thing I love about this is that it is fluid. If I'm not able to accomplish much on a certain day because of unexpected things coming up, I either move the card to the next day or week and have another go at it then. My work schedule is not very set, so this method fits my life perfectly right now.
Please feel free to ask questions in comments if you have any!
Monday, March 24, 2008
Menu Plan Monday
Joining in on the fun over at Organizing Junkie . . .
We're getting ready to move, so this week and next week's menu plans will be light and easy to do. I don't want to buy much in the way of groceries except for the necessities (bread, soy milk, etc.) so I'm using things that are on hand-- I want to finish up vertain things in the fridge and freezer so they won't make the move with us! This is also the week that we're doing a lot of packing, so easy and fast is a must. Between our regular life schedules and the packing, we're pretty swamped.
These meals are super kid friendly, mostly because I don't want meal time to be an added stress this week. We're trying to get our toddler to eat a wider variety of foods, but this is not the week to work on that.
This week:
Monday: Chicken Quesadillas
Tuesday: Grill hotdogs and hamburgers
Wednesday: Easter Dinner Leftovers
Thursday: Vegetable Soup in the crockpot
Friday: Spaghetti
Saturday: Leftovers or sandwiches
Veggies or fruit go with all meals; that is the item I let our toddler pick so he may actually eat some of it.
We're getting ready to move, so this week and next week's menu plans will be light and easy to do. I don't want to buy much in the way of groceries except for the necessities (bread, soy milk, etc.) so I'm using things that are on hand-- I want to finish up vertain things in the fridge and freezer so they won't make the move with us! This is also the week that we're doing a lot of packing, so easy and fast is a must. Between our regular life schedules and the packing, we're pretty swamped.
These meals are super kid friendly, mostly because I don't want meal time to be an added stress this week. We're trying to get our toddler to eat a wider variety of foods, but this is not the week to work on that.
This week:
Monday: Chicken Quesadillas
Tuesday: Grill hotdogs and hamburgers
Wednesday: Easter Dinner Leftovers
Thursday: Vegetable Soup in the crockpot
Friday: Spaghetti
Saturday: Leftovers or sandwiches
Veggies or fruit go with all meals; that is the item I let our toddler pick so he may actually eat some of it.
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